What could be putting young women off marriage? It really isn’t that much of a mystery | Naoise Dolan
Recent survey data reveals a notable shift in attitudes towards marriage among young people, particularly highlighting a growing divide between the aspirations of girls and boys. According to findings from the University of Michigan, only 61% of high school girls envision marriage in their future, compared to 74% of boys. This disparity suggests that while young men remain enthusiastic about the prospect of tying the knot, young women are increasingly ambivalent. This trend aligns with broader societal changes, as marriage rates in England and Wales have declined by nearly 9% following a brief post-pandemic increase. In contrast, civil partnerships have seen a rise of almost the same percentage, indicating a shift in how relationships are defined and formalized.
The Vatican has recently weighed in on the topic, releasing a 40-page doctrinal note titled “Una Caro” (One Flesh), which extols the virtues of monogamy and the value of marriage as a unique and exclusive union. However, the church’s perspective may not resonate with younger generations, especially given the changing gender norms and expectations surrounding relationships. The rise of opinion pieces from disillusioned men lamenting their dating experiences reflects a growing tension in the dating landscape, where traditional roles are being challenged. This societal shift raises important questions about the future of marriage and relationships, as young women increasingly prioritize personal fulfillment and autonomy over traditional commitments. As these dynamics evolve, it will be essential to consider how they impact not only individual choices but also the institution of marriage as a whole.
In this context, the conversation around marriage is becoming more nuanced, with young people redefining what partnership means to them. The decline in marriage rates, coupled with the rise in civil partnerships, suggests that many are seeking alternative forms of commitment that resonate more closely with their values and lifestyles. As we navigate these changing tides, it’s crucial to engage in dialogue about the implications of these trends and the ways they reflect broader societal transformations. Do you have thoughts on the evolving perceptions of marriage? We invite you to share your opinions for potential publication in our letters section.
Survey data suggests more and more girls can’t imagine getting married, while their male counterparts are keener. That disparity holds a clue
According to recent data, marriages in England and Wales are
down by nearly 9%
after a post-pandemic spike, while civil partnerships have risen by almost the same percentage. This downward trend is also reflected
in the US
. The Vatican has piped up in defence of the institution, releasing
a 40-page doctrinal note
, Una Caro (One Flesh): In Praise of Monogamy: Doctrinal Note on the Value of Marriage as an Exclusive Union and Mutual Belonging. Sworn celibates would not be my personal first port of call when seeking relationship advice, but to each their own – exclusively and indissolubly, if the Catholic church is to be believed.
Among the younger crowd, gendered expectations about marriage are changing, at least according to
a survey
by the University of Michigan, which found that only 61% of high-school girls want to be married one day, compared to 74% of the boys. Perhaps this is behind the burgeoning genre of opinion pieces in which a rightwing man complains
that women don’t want to date him
. Often enough, he is an avowed libertarian, leaving it a mystery why he does not simply accept the workings of the free market.
Naoise Dolan is an Irish writer and the author of
Exciting Times
and
The Happy Couple
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