How food assistance programs can feed families and nourish their dignity
The recent government shutdown highlighted the struggles of over 42 million Americans relying on the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) for food security, as they faced a 43-day suspension of benefits. This situation underscored the emotional toll of food insecurity, with individuals expressing feelings of anger and invisibility. One West Virginia resident poignantly articulated this sentiment, stating, “We’re angry. Because we do count!” This statement reflects a broader reality: food is not merely sustenance; it serves as a marker of social status and identity. When individuals are unable to provide nutritious meals that align with their values, it can lead to feelings of shame and diminished dignity.
Research into food inequality and assistance programs reveals that while these initiatives are crucial for meeting basic needs, they often come with stigmas that can undermine self-worth. Many food assistance recipients have shared experiences of receiving low-quality, often damaged food from pantries, which can feel dehumanizing. For instance, one woman described the food she received as “almost trash,” highlighting the harsh reality many face when relying on charitable food programs. Furthermore, societal perceptions of food assistance can exacerbate feelings of shame, as those using SNAP benefits often encounter judgment from others, reinforcing the stigma surrounding poverty.
However, studies suggest that food assistance programs can be designed to preserve dignity and foster a sense of worth. Programs that emphasize quality, choice, and respect for recipients can significantly improve their experiences. For example, the “Pass the Love” meal kit program provided participants with nutritious, well-packaged food, generating feelings of joy and appreciation akin to receiving a gift. Participants noted that the thoughtfulness behind the program made them feel valued, indicating that food assistance should not only meet physical needs but also contribute positively to mental and emotional well-being. By treating food as a fundamental human right and ensuring access to high-quality, culturally appropriate options, we can help individuals thrive both nutritionally and socially, thereby combating the stigma associated with food insecurity.
Food assistance does more good when it doesn’t make people feel bad for needing help.
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The
2025 government shutdown
drew widespread attention to how many Americans struggle to get enough food. For 43 days, the more than 42 million Americans who receive
Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program
benefits had to find other ways to stock their cupboards.
When asked how she felt about her benefits being suspended, one
woman in West Virginia
told a New York Times reporter, “We’re angry. Because we do count!”
Her sentiment reflects an often underappreciated fact about food. Food is not just a matter of survival. What and how you eat is also a symbol of your social status. Being unable to reliably feed your family healthy and nutritious foods in a way that aligns with your values can feel undignified. It can make people feel unseen and less important than others.
As researchers who study
food inequality
,
nutrition
and
food justice
, we have spent decades surveying and interviewing Americans about how they eat. We have witnessed firsthand how food assistance does help people meet their basic needs, but how it can also be stigmatizing and diminish their sense of dignity.
We have also studied alternatives to typical charitable food programs that, despite good intentions, tend to induce shame. We have learned that it is possible to help people put food on the table while preserving their dignity.
Dignity and food assistance
Addressing the root causes of food insecurity – what happens when people lack steady access to the
food they need for a nutritious diet
that’s in keeping with their preferences – is a persistent problem in the United States.
Thus, the
demand for SNAP benefits
, which help Americans buy groceries,
other government nutrition programs
, and
food banks and food pantries
rarely declines much – even when the economy is strong. Yet relying on food assistance programs
does not tend to support a healthy diet
and can take a toll on mental health.
As interviewers and clinicians, we have heard mothers describe the shame they feel when SNAP benefits do not cover the entire grocery bill.
We have witnessed the frustration
that comes with walking down a food pantry aisle lined with signs instructing hungry people to “take only 1 item!”
“The stuff looks like almost trash, but they give it to you,” one woman we interviewed said of her experience with food pantries and the like.
These kinds of stories are not uncommon. Charitable food programs receive leftover items from grocery stores, donations from community food drives and local businesses, and sometimes surplus from local farms. Food is often damaged in transport or from being handled too many times. A review of the research found that many people who use food pantries
described the food as unhealthy, moldy or inedible
. Being given unhealthy and unappealing food in a time of need is a double burden.
While free food may fill the stomach, it does not satisfy the desire to feel fully human and worthy of nourishment.
People who visit food banks
have told researchers that they have come to expect
low-quality food and few choices. When food aid is provided that way, it can leave the people it is supposed to help
feeling powerless
and
ashamed
.
These indignities are compounded by the fact that people who visit food banks and food pantries
routinely face suspicion and surveillance
around what they buy and how they eat, intensifying the
stress associated with food insecurity
.
In our research, we saw cashiers hovering over mothers using
SNAP EBT cards
in the self-checkout line.
Politicians routinely suggest that SNAP is corrupt
, contributing to nationwide perceptions that people who rely on this program are unfairly gaming the system. One study found that more than two-thirds of the Americans people who get food assistance have been the
target of hostile comments and interactions from strangers at the grocery store
.
Minimizing stigma
Several studies
have shown that food programs do not need to sacrifice dignity to offer help. Programs that offer opportunities for people with lower incomes to receive and give back are important.
In Canada, bulk-buying food cooperatives
did just that. Food assistance programs confer dignity when they
make people feel good
. People seeking help feel more satisfied after visiting food pantries that keep convenient hours or offer fresh produce.
SNAP has also tried to promote client dignity
by ensuring that benefits are accepted in major grocery stores and distributing the funds to debit cards, allowing people to look and feel like everyday shoppers.
Yet despite these efforts
social stigma persists
. People who are enrolled in the SNAP program are still
routinely devalued and judged for being poor
in a society that assigns social value and worth based on one’s position on the economic ladder.
Because SNAP benefits can be used to buy food at stores, the program generally allows for broad choices.
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Cultivating dignity in food assistance
Minimizing stigma improves food assistance. Intentionally cultivating food dignity may be the next step.
Our assessment of a nationwide meal kit program demonstrated how dignity can be cultivated when food assistance programs consider the nutritional, emotional, aesthetic and cultural dimensions of food and eating.
In 2021, we conducted 116 interviews with participants of a meal kit program called
Pass the Love
. The program was free and anyone could enroll, no questions asked. The meal kits contained the necessary food and recipes to make three vegetarian meals a week, such as sesame coconut noodle salad or carrot coconut dal with rice. The program ran for four consecutive weeks.
When we interviewed participants about their experiences during and after the program,
we learned
that while they were thankful for the free food, what mattered more was the high quality, how it was packaged and how it conveyed care and respect.
Most participants had incomes at or well below the poverty line. They described what we came to call a “high dignity food experience,” meaning that it generated positive feelings and a sense of worth.
Opening the nicely packaged meal kit boxes each week felt like “Christmas,” to some people and a “gift” to others. Many found the “thought and care” that went into the program remarkable. Offering high-quality food to make nutritious, complete meals symbolized that low-income or food-insecure people deserve to eat well and feel good.
Our research, like similar studies that others have conducted, shows that
treating food as a basic human right
requires more than just giving people something to eat. It means ensuring unconditional access to the culturally appropriate fresh and nutritious food people need to thrive not just physically, but psychologically and socially.
Joslyn Brenton received funding from Partnership for a Healthier America as an external research expert.
Dr. Virudachalam received funding from the Edna G. Kynett Memorial Foundation, Rite Aid Foundation, and Partnership for a Healthier America in the last 36 months. She is a member of The Food Trust Board of Directors, the National Produce Prescription Collaborative Steering Committee, and Philadelphia City Council’s Food and Nutrition Security Task Force.
Alyssa Tindall does not work for, consult, own shares in or receive funding from any company or organization that would benefit from this article, and has disclosed no relevant affiliations beyond their academic appointment.